Adopting a new animal
is fun for the entire family. But even though your dog is new to you and your
home, he still requires structure and rules to thrive. As tempting as it may
be, itâs not a good idea to just play things by ear. Here are 5 things you
shouldnât do when you bring your new dog home.
1.
Donât
Forget about Rules Altogether
It can be really
tempting to throw all the rules out the window when you get a new dog. After
all, itâs his first day at your home, and you donât want to start off by being
mean and disciplining him. However, not enforcing important rules from day 1
sets a bad precedent for your dog.
Think about it from
your dogâs perspective. You laughed when he stole your slippers, and you didnât
get mad when he chewed them up. Obviously, he thinks thatâs a fine occupation
since it meets your approval. What will stop him from doing it again? Unless
you really donât mind him chewing up your shoes, you need to establish right
away that thatâs not acceptable behavior.
Obviously, thereâs no
need to inflict pain or even yell at your dog. Dogs can sense rather quickly
whether their actions please you or not. And sometimes a non-reaction is even
better, because it shows that the behavior is not worthy of praise or
acknowledgement of any kind.
2.
Donât
Expect Too Much at Once
Your dog has a new
home now, which means thereâs a lot to learn. To make it easier on him, you
shouldnât expect too much at once. Many things might be different in your home
than what heâs used to. If there are several behavioral issues youâd like to
work on, then it might help to start with one at a time.
For example, if your
dog likes to jump, itâs important to cure him of that habit. If he squeezes out
the door when you go for a walk without waiting for you, you need to address
this, too. But it might help to focus on one or the other first before tackling
the next problem. But even if you only focus on one habit, you should always
praise him when you observe the desired behavior, such as greeting you without
jumping or waiting for you to go through the door first.
3.
Donât
Overwhelm Your Dog
Your dog needs some
downtime just like everyone else. Meeting new people, exploring a new home, and
discovering new smells is very stimulating for him. For the first few days, you
can take him for a walk through the neighborhood, but you probably shouldnât
plan a road trip or invite lots of visitors to your home.
If the neighborhood
walks seem to be too stimulating for your new dog, then you can dial it down even
more by sticking to your backyard or the front lawn. Itâs also a good idea to
show him where to do his business from the beginning if you have a preference.
4.
Donât
Expect Him to Want Company All the Time
If your dog has a safe
place to retreat to, he can seek some calm whenever he needs it. Itâs important
to teach everyone in your family to respect the dogâs privacy in that location,
whether thatâs his crate, a special blanket, or a corner under the desk.
To show him his safe
area, you could place his food dishes nearby or put down a special treat, such
as a chewy bone. Every dog is different. Some may crave company and enjoy being
around you from the start, where others need more time alone until they feel
comfortable with their surroundings. If possible, follow your dogâs cue.
5.
Donât
Expect Same Behavior You Saw Initially
People act differently
around other people. Itâs almost as if we all have several personalities. There
is the working you, there is the domestic you, there is the parent, child, or
sibling in you, and then thereâs the you as you present yourself to strangers. Itâs
similar for dogs.
Your dog is still the
same dog that you saw at the shelter, but youâll probably explore new sides of
him as you get to know each other. He may be shy with strangers, or he may be
playful with everyone he meets and only show you his vulnerable, calmer side.
Part of the fun of adopting a dog is enjoying this getting-to-know-each-other
phase.